When I worked as a teacher, there were many parents
who complained that their kids didn't study enough. However, I am not sure that
these kids were explicitly told how
to study. It seemed that studying techniques was a kind of taboo topic. Much
talk was being done about the importance of it, but the actual act of studying
was a bit hushed upon. When I was a kid and I was asking how I should study,
they shrugged me off telling me that I just needed to 'open the book and start
studying'.
Oh really? And when I get bored? And when I don't
understand something? And when I don't feel like it? After all, is it normal
for a kid to be able to focus on such an unstimulating activity? I did want to
study; sometimes I enjoyed it; but sometimes I found it very hard to concentrate.
I got bored. I turned on MTV. I called my friends. No focus at all.
Now, the same old story all over again. I have goals.
And I get stuck. You, people, with the perfect careers, do tell me, please: how
do you do it? I want details. All the gory details. You, with the top class grades.
You, who always seem on top of everything. Tell me. How. Do. You. Do. It.
Something similar is happening right now, I am afraid,
on a global level. Day after day, articles and blog posts appear urging
freelancers, small business owners and entrepreneurs to get up and do stuff. Achieve
our goals. Grow. Fulfil our potential. Leave our comfort zone. But only a few
articles and posts tell us how to do
it.
I mean, for real. I want to learn how to do it. I want to hear everything
that went wrong and how you were able to fix it. I want to read about how you
were bored to death, procrastinating like crazy, but still managed to overcome
it and finally succeed.
Having said
that, I think that what works for a
person depends on his or her specific circumstances. What worked for me may
not necessarily work for you. But reading about specific cases exposes me to various plans that do work, albeit in a different context,
and this gets me in the mood of doing things.
I am not a big
fan of clichés such as 'leave your comfort zone' or 'always think positively
because the universe is conspiring for your benefit only'. Instead, I believe
that what we want is on the other side
of hard work.
And hard work
needs a plan. An explicit plan. That's why, when I used to teach, I would
explain in detail to my students how
they should study. In every single detail. They needed a plan, that is, a clear
process. And I don't mean micromanaging, far from it. I just described them how I did it (because at that time I was a
student, too). And this did the trick. It put them to the right track. It gave
them a good example. That's what I need at the moment. I need to learn how to
proceed. What we want is on the other side of hard work. And hard work, people,
needs a plan.
Thanks for
reading!
