It was back in early 1998 when I was first introduced
to the Internet: there was this friend of mine who was telling me again and
again how you can find everything online (“Wanna come upstairs to show you my Internet?”
seemed to be the perfect pick-up line for the nerdy gal I was in those days).
So, what was the first thing I wanted to look up on
the Internet?
Song lyrics! There were so many English songs I was absolutely
curious to look up and find out at last their exact lyrics. It was obvious from the very first moment that I
wanted to use this new medium in a way that was meaningful and relevant to me.
But it is not always easy to do so.
Sometimes I find it quite hard to balance my online
presence and my regular life. I am using the Internet in a way that is not always
meaningful and relevant: it is becoming a burden.
So I decided to sit down and reflect upon what had
possibly gone wrong.
First I realised that my relationship with the Internet
these past few years has somewhat changed. Now I use it also as a professional tool. As a freelancer I am
interested in networking with fellow professionals as well as with potential
clients. And that’s the main reason I use social media, too.
And it was then that it came to me: if I am to use the
Internet more positively, I have to re-examine the way I use it on a professional level. And that’s
exactly what I did. So now I’d like to share my thoughts with you and give you
a few tips I came up with in order
to use the Internet in a more positive way. Hope they can help you as much as they
helped me!
#1 PEOPLE ARE
MUCH MORE THAN THEIR ONLINE PROFILES
One of the first thoughts I had was that I was objectifying
myself on the Internet. I was doing it mainly through comparing and contrasting
myself with the other professionals. But we are not just a part of the machine:
each of us has their own special value as a person and as a professional. And we obviously are a lot more than the sum total
of our qualifications: our true essence as human beings can never be
reduced to an online profile. Yet when we see the abundance of professionals
out there it’s easy to imagine that clients are able to pick and choose. That’s
not always true. We are not interchangeable. Each of us is special and worthy in
our own way.
#2 GOALS CAN
HELP US FIND OUR WAY
The Internet is so vast it can become a total time
waster. Unless you have a good compass that helps you find your way. For me
this compass is my personal goal. When
I try to avoid causes that are irrelevant to my goal I use the Internet more effectively.
Besides, my goal helps me beat procrastination because this way I become more
focused on what I want to do. But most importantly, sticking to my goal has helped
me meet people that share my interests. Again, the advice that works is to always
use the Internet in a way that is relevant and meaningful to you!
#3 A GOOD SCHEDULE
IS KEY
I came to the conclusion that we should schedule our time
online because I had a feeling that the Internet is taking over my life. And
why was that so? Partly because I felt compelled to answer every single email
or message immediately. The Internet
gives us the feeling we are living in a total ‘present’, that’s why while
we are online we tend to forget about the future and we want to do everything right now. Maybe it will work for you to
make a deal with yourself and check what’s happening on the online world every
thirty, sixty, or ninety minutes (I am not able to make this deal yet. But I
will try). In any case you should never forget that our time online needs to be
scheduled because otherwise it can
get easily out of hand.
#4 WE CAN’T
ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE
Sometimes the client does not see us translators as
complete people with own life and needs. For example, when we respond almost
immediately to an email or to a DM, clients tend to assume that we are always available. We should NEVER
identify with this image. Rather, we
need to balance our professional with our personal lives. And if there are
some freelancers who work constantly, without even a small break, and who are
always available for everyone, that’s very fine (for us, obviously not for
them). It is impossible to compete in these terms. Forget about it and move on.
#5 ENRICH YOUR
LIFE, NOT JUST YOUR PROFILE
For me, but I believe for others as well, the Internet
has started to give me the uncanny feeling that it is ‘unreal’. I don’t know
how to explain this. I’ll just say that sometimes I feel the Internet is somehow
disconnected from real life, as if it’d got a life of its own. So I decided
to do the following: I thought about real people and tried to imagine a
fictitious online profile for each of them. And then I suddenly realised that an
online profile, however detailed, would never do these people justice. It would
always somehow ‘reduce’ them. Why? Because online presence acts just as an
appendix to our real life. Yet we sometimes forget. Sometimes we even use our real
life to enhance our media presence! The Internet
should supplement real life, not the other way round. If you feel you are
spending too much time online, that certainly means something. Think whether
you’re not satisfied with your regular life, and if not, try to do something
about it. Finally, do not waste your time on creating the 'perfect' profile. In
any case, it will not do you justice. Instead, try to interact more with fellow
professionals and potential clients with the aim of meeting them at some point
in real life (but always in a safe context). That’s what I am going to do from
now on! What about you?
Thanks for reading!
